Monday, June 27, 2011

Back at it...

Just over a month ago I posted that I had scrapped my current WIP story line to revamp it.  I am not currently back up in my word count to where I was before I erased it.  And it feels good.  The story flows more smoothly, has more dynamics, it's just overall better!  No other way to say it.  I like it!

I've got the first eight chapters out with my crit partner and a few friends getting all the feedback I can.  While they are reading it over I'm continuing with the story.  I'm moving along quickly, which means lots of late nights since I work an 8-5 job Monday-Friday and have a little one to take care of.  Happy to say I'm slowly training myself to run on less sleep.  It's rough because I gave up drinking caffeine back in early March so when I get really tired I have to resort to other measures...like cranking up the music and dancing around the room.  I have to say it's all worth it!

I can't tell you how excited I am to finish this WIP!

It feel so good to be back.....

Currently listening to (no, not Eminem, but I did sing his song in my head as I wrote the last line): ET by Katy Perry.  I can't stop listening to this song!  I heard it for the first time (I mostly listen to a rock station, no KP) during The 9 lives of Chole King preview (don't watch the show, just saw the previews) and couldn't get it out of my head, so I downloaded it and keep listening to it over and over!  Not sick of it yet!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Writing is like...Raising a child...

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Tuesday, June 7, 2011

My Two Cents...

I am not a teenager or young adult, I'm 29, but I am an avid reader of young adult fiction.  And I most likely always will be.  It's what I love to read.  It's what I feel comfortable reading.  I read to escape real life for a little while.  I want it to be fun, not a chore.  I do read some books that are not YA, but they are always few and far between.  Nothing against them, I just enjoy YA more.  People laugh when I tell them what I like to read.  But what they don't understand is it's not a reading level, it's the content.  I don't want to read a full blown sex scene.  It's just not me.  I don't want to have to stop every few pages and think "what's going on?"  I read for fun.  I don't want to have to pick up a dictionary every other word.  That's too much work.  I want to sit back, get lost in a story, and enjoy it.
I'm going to say I didn't like what I read in the WSJ article about young adult books (which I'm not going to link.  It's out there to find and most of you have already read it).  I do want to give my opinion, not so much on the article, but on the topic.  Mostly on what's out there and about censorship and who should decide what's suitable or not.
I do feel the mother of the teen age daughter said a good thing.  Direct quote from the article: "she felt, 'nothing, not a thing, that I could imagine giving my daughter.'"  I wholeheartedly believe that parents are the only ones who should decide what their child should or should not read.  Only they know what they can handle at their age.  What's out there might not be suitable for her thirteen-year-old, but that doesn't mean it's not good for all teens or young adults.  In my opinion, yes, most of the stuff out there is not suitable for the majority of thirteen-year-olds.  I'm sure there are very few that are prepared to read it.  Every child is different in what they can and cannot handle.
For instance, my father wouldn't let me read Stephen King until I turned eighteen.  Did I disagree with this?  Heck yes I did!  I was a teenager.  All of my friends were reading it.  I even got busted hiding one under my bed that a friend lent me (no, my parents didn't search my room.  We had a dog who liked to sleep under beds.  When she got older, she grew bigger and would get stuck.  My dad was getting her out when he found it.)  Should I have been reading these books?  No.  And my father knew it (although I've never told him this).  He would tell me the books are far worse than the movies (and I'd only seen the TV edited versions) and he knew that I wouldn't handle that well.  Parents know their children.  I have yet to read a Stephen King novel because now that I'm older, I know I don't need to read them.  I know it's not a story I will enjoy or benefit from.
Now as far as the writer of the article to say there is nothing out there?  That everything is too dark?  Then people aren't looking hard enough.  B&N is a company trying to make money, just like any other.  They have to make a profit, so yes, they are going to market what sells.  That doesn't mean that's it, take it or leave it.  Look harder.  Try the children/middle-grade section.  Look at used books stores.  Order on-line.  But there is something out there for everyone to read.  If not in the current market, go back a few years.  It's there.
And to me, YA should be diverse.  It needs to be.  It needs to show that everyone is different, and that it's okay to be different.  From books about the trials of babysitting to books about torture and everything in between.  The article prompted people to voice their opinion and in doing so the hashtag #YASaves was created.  Take a look.  It will move you to tears.  It did me.  

While books were just something to keep me company growing up, they were changing lives for others.  I had never thought about it before, but after reading post after post about how a book helped someone realize they weren't alone in their problems, how they could make a change for the better, I couldn't agree more than YA Saves.  If a girl needs to read about another girl cutting to help her understand, make it available.  If a boy needs to read about a boy getting tortured for a number of reasons to realize bullying is not right, make it available.  There are countless examples I can give, but if one person thought it up long enough to put in a book, I guarantee someone else is living it.  It should be the message that counts.  The rest is just entertainment.  A way to get kids to read, make it fun and interesting.  If it takes a sparkly vampire to get teenagers reading again, why not make it available?  If it takes a group of chosen kids to fight to the death to learn about perseverance and standing up for what you believe in, why not make it available?  Kids are smart.  They know vampires don't exist.  They know we don't live in a post-apocalyptic world where killing is a sport.  They will get the message.  

In the end, I can't imaging reading books like these when I was a teen (10-16 years ago), but I would have loved to.  There just wasn't a market for them then.  

To sum it up:
Parents should be the ones to judge what their children read.  Maybe read it for themselves and talk about it.
Kids are smart.  They will figure it out the difference between what's real and what's not.  
And just because YA Saves is a trendy twitter topic, doesn't mean it's not true.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Two Posts in One Day!

This is worth it!  Lauren DeStefano is giving away ARCs!  Yes, ARCs as in two!  Lauren said as soon as she reaches 3000 twitter followers she would give away an ARC of Wither and Fever (as soon as it's printed)!  Go to her blog here to enter!

Starting Over

What does one do when they reach 18, 631 words on their WIP and get stuck?  Most people would find a way to work around it.  Me?  I would scratch the idea and start over.  Crazy, right?  Well, that's just what I did last week.

I found myself at a part of my story that just didn't fit.  The thoughts sounded all wrong coming from my current character.  So, instead of moving forward with a storyline that was lifeless, I created a new one.  A more exciting one.

A better one.  Or so I'm told by Anna (talented author and amazing sister-in-law).

I kept the plot and setting, change the names of my MC and her love interest, took them from their twenties and made them teenagers.

Right now I'm just over 2000 words in and more excited than ever before, even though I have a LONG road ahead of me.  It's a lot, but do-able, especially with the help of my new writing partner.  With the help of Jamie (check out her blog, it's great inspiration) I hope to complete a first draft by summers end.  Our goal is 750 words a day.  More is a bonus.  

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Blogger Awards and 7 Random Things About Me!

It's been a long time since I've posted.  I'm still trying to make time for everything and it gets tough.  But, I was given this award and said I would try my hardest to do one myself.  I'm still trying to learn the ropes of blogger, so here goes!

I was given "The Versatile Blogger Award" by the lovely Anita Grace Howard aka Anita Fajitas Margarita (so named by my wonderful sister in law Anna Zagar aka Anna Banana).  I bet they both love me right now!  So, now it's my turn to give this award to five other people.




I had to may to pick from, so I also decided to do the stylish blogger awards.  Yeah, I cheated.  It's my blog, I can do what I want!





Here are the rules for both awards:

1. Thank and link to the person who nominated you.
2. Share seven random facts about yourself.
3. Pass the award along to five buddies whose blogs epitomize said theme.
4. Contact those buddies to congratulate them.

And now for my 7 Random Things...this is hard!

1.  I'm 29 years old and still cut the crust off of my sandwiches and toast!  Unless it's raisin toast.  I just don't like it.

2.  I love to dance.  To make cleaning the house fun I put on my iPod and dance around.  And I only worry a little bit about the fact that we have a glass window on our front door.  

3.  I hated my hair in high school.  It was thick and wavy/curly/kinky/crazy and took me forever to fix it so it looked decent.  I also hated that it was red (I was born blond and it just changed).  Now I love being a red head because we are rare!  And I do cry when a hair cut doesn't come out how I wanted (like when too much gets cut off).  My hair is my thing.  If I had to go out of the house with either hair or make up done, I'd choose hair hands down!

4.  The show Unsolved Mysteries and Rescue 911 freaked me out when I was younger!  I saw one episode of UM where someone spontaneously combusted and I had night mares!  Then R 911 made me very cautious of escalators (look up episode 424 if you want more info).

5.  I like the show The Suite Life of Zack and Cody on Disney and am a little sad to see them "graduate".  I also like iCarly.  Hey, my little boy likes them and it's way better than Sponge Bob (whom I do.  Not.  Like.)

6.  I have OCD tendencies.  If you can't tell by the fact that the winners are done in alphabetical order.  Same thing with my books (by author), movies (by title), CDs (by artist), etc.  I drive my family crazy when playing games that deal with cards or money (like Life or Monopoly) because I have to have them arranged perfectly!  

7.  Although I love reading, I hate being told what to read or what to get out of what I'm reading.  I can't remember reading a single book in full during High School.  I would read enough (skimming) to pass the tests or write the paper (I did well too, A's & B's).  My AP class never read the interesting books!  I would actually borrow books from the teacher from her regular English class and read those instead (they had the good books like The Outsiders).  

Okay, seven random facts was a little hard, but fun!  Thank you Anita.  This was tons of fun!  And great practice adding the links and pics.  

Also, please forgive any mistakes on this post.  My 3 1/2 year old thought it would be fun to climb on me and my chair while I tried to create it.  He's happy reading and playing in his room until I decide to sit down for five minutes and do something for myself.  He also tends to get up early on the days I can sleep in but sleep in on days I have to get up early.  But I wouldn't trade him for anything.

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

"Change the voices in your head, make them like you instead..."

We are our biggest critics.  No one will ever be harder on you than you are on yourself.  But do we have to be mean?  I know I'm guilty of it.  I always think the best in others but the worst in myself.  There's enough negativity in the world without dumping it on myself.  A person can only do so much before they fail.  A person can only take so much before they fall.  I won’t let anyone else break me, so why do I allow myself?  We are our worst enemy. 


“Why do we do that? Why do I do that?”

Currently listening to: Pink "F'in Perfect"